Mind Over Matter

  • The Lie of Urgency: Why Everything Feels Like an Emergency

    The Lie of Urgency: Why Everything Feels Like an Emergency

    We live in a world where something is always demanding our attention.  Your phone buzzes.  Your computer dings. Someone cries. Another person yells. You move quickly from task to task.  You rush through the morning routine.  You glance at the clock and realize you’re already behind.  You hurry the kids into the car. Before you…

  • You Don’t Have to Finish Everything: Trusting God with What’s Unfinished

    You Don’t Have to Finish Everything: Trusting God with What’s Unfinished

    There will always be something on the list. Always. At work, the emails refill. At home, the laundry regenerates. The dishes multiply. The calendar fills itself. The needs don’t stop. I’ve made peace with the fact that my to-do list will never be finished, at work or at home. Even on your deathbed, you’re technically…

  • When You Fall Behind: A Gentle Reset for the Overwhelmed Mom 

    When You Fall Behind: A Gentle Reset for the Overwhelmed Mom 

    Hey sweet friend!  I had a different blog post planned for 1/4… and I didn’t write it.  I’ve been sick, worn down, and honestly, I’ve felt that familiar mix of guilt and overwhelm that creeps in when life doesn’t go according to plan.  If that’s you right now—behind on goals, behind on routines, behind on…

  • When You Feel Behind on Your Goals: Why Getting Back Up Doesn’t Always Mean Trying Harder

    When You Feel Behind on Your Goals: Why Getting Back Up Doesn’t Always Mean Trying Harder

    There are a lot of mamas out there who prepared for a snowpocalypse this week. We’re trying to maintain some semblance of normalcy, working remotely while entertaining kids who are suddenly stuck at home. Our sanity may have flown the coop about 48 hours and 32 snack requests ago. And if I had to guess,…

  • Cultivating Peace Before the Holiday Chaos Hits

    Cultivating Peace Before the Holiday Chaos Hits

    If I’m being honest, I’ve been running on empty a lot lately. Like double-decker, struggle-bus levels of soul-deep exhaustion and despair. And the mere thought of the holiday chaos quietly creeping in causes a mental spiral that does nothing but distract and delay. Between the never-ending to-do lists, my full-time job, PTO responsibilities, mom-life, and…

  • Standing Strong through Survival Mode

    Standing Strong through Survival Mode

    When troubles feel unrelenting and survival mode seems never-ending, remember that endurance strengthens your character, hope anchors your soul, and God’s love holds you through it all.

  • The Power of Daily Renewal

    The Power of Daily Renewal

    Find renewal in the middle of your busy day in small GAPS (Gratitude, Affirmations, Prayer, and Scripture) to invite peace, purpose, and strength back into your every day.

  • Finding God’s Comfort When Grief Feels Overwhelming

    Finding God’s Comfort When Grief Feels Overwhelming

    When we lose someone close to us, grief torments us and compels us to question the morality of such a profound loss. It’s when these losses hurt so badly that you start realizing that you cannot experience this level of grief without having an equally high level of love — the kind of love that…

  • 5 Small Shifts That Help Me Reset My Week and My Mental Load

    5 Small Shifts That Help Me Reset My Week and My Mental Load

    Have you ever felt like you’re running through the week on fumes—body tired, mind scattered, and your to-do list still growing? That’s exactly where I found myself THIS WEEK! (Case in point: this blog post is a day late.) My routines have slipped, the mental load is piling up, and I know something must change.…

  • Why Your Old Routines Aren’t Working (And What to Do About It)

    Why Your Old Routines Aren’t Working (And What to Do About It)

    Before I had kids, my mornings were practically a work of art. My body would wake me up naturally a few minutes before the soft chime of my alarm, my coffee would be set the night before to brew and be ready before I even walked downstairs, and then, I would sit on my couch…